2026
12th of june
*Only Buy if approved*
The play
Debochery is a private play community for men who value consent, respect and privacy. You are welcome whether you come to dance, connect, observe or play. Nothing performative is expected of you.
There are three separate rooms:
Dancefloor
Chillroom
Playroom
! No play or full nudity allowed on the dancefloor !
To join
To join the community, DM us on Instagram with your full name, email, and a few recent photos (no explicit content). Please take the time to read the play code below and send us an “I agree to the play code.”
Acceptance is not guaranteed. This is a private event and access is granted selectively in order to protect the comfort, safety, and atmosphere of the space.
The play code
Consent is queen
Make sure you get clear visual, verbal, or tactile consent before engaging in any play with someone. A “yes” without genuine enthusiasm should be treated as a no.
Even if you enjoy consensual non-consent play, it must be clearly negotiated and mutually agreed upon beforehand.
Consent is fluid and ongoing. It can be withdrawn at any moment, so stay aware, attentive, and respectful throughout.
No hard drugs
This is a space built on awareness, connection, and mutual care. If you choose to consume, do so responsibly and know your limits.
We understand that these experiences can sometimes bring anxiety or emotional intensity, but it’s important not to project that onto others or disrupt the atmosphere because you’re struggling to manage yourself. Take a moment, ground yourself, ask for support if needed, and respect the shared energy of the space.
Be kind
Show kindness and care toward the people around you, even if they aren’t your usual type. It’s completely okay to be kind while still saying “no”. Respectful boundaries are part of a healthy environment.
Please also treat the venue with care. Play-positive events are rare, fragile, and precious spaces built on trust, vulnerability, and mutual respect.
Take care of one another, and of the space we share.
Privacy
Privacy is essential here. No Phones, photos, or recordings. They break the trust that allows people to be vulnerable, free, and safe.
Please also keep the experience to yourself. Offer others the same safe space and discretion you would want for yourself.
No underage attendees. Any violation of the play code will result in immediate expulsion, without refund.
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